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Why I Sometimes Suggest a Client Consider Taking Medications ….

This week’s guest blog is by Dr. Henry Steinberger, a licensed psychologist in private practice at Henry Steinberger PhD LLC, in Madison Wisconsin. He offers clients choices: secular recovery based on science vs. spiritual; abstinence vs. moderation. In addition, working with Acceptance & Commitment Therapy as well as Mindfulness Training has proven more effective in Dr Steinberger’s practice with clients presenting with trauma, addiction, co-occurring or adult ADHD, than other theraputic models.

 As a psychologist I encounter a few clients who are dead set against even considering taking a medication, yet they can’t seem to progress in therapy. Could medications help? I ask you to consider the question.

Let me be clear: I am not a shill for the pharmaceutical industry. Indeed, I strongly agree with the psychiatrist blogger who said: “Psychopharmacology without therapy is like treating an infection with Tylenol”. We clearly agree that medications do not cure a “psychiatric disease” and that psychiatrists are “not even sure what the disease actually is”.

So why take a medication then? When clients first see me at Henry Steinberger PhD LLC, I find that some have chosen me as a psychologist because they know that a psychologist can’t prescribe psychiatric medications and might even share their bias against the use of drugs. Such clients may even start out saying: I don’t want to take any drugs. And they often have very clear and understandable reasons for this a priori decision. As I see it, there is usually no need for medications and so no need to argue over. But when it becomes clear that medications might be useful or even necessary, and then I must answer this question if we are to move forward towards a successful outcome.

The whole point of taking medications is symptom reduction. Reduced symptoms or a respite from their intensity can give my client an opportunity to look at their situation without feeling overwhelmed with symptoms; allowing space, time and energy for understanding and learning a new point of view and new more helpful behaviors. In my book that’s the point of medications.

 For instance, treating depression with an antidepressant is not the solution. But consider, one prominent symptom of depression involves a feeling of having lost or not having enough energy. Other symptoms include a lack of concentration, sleep, and self-care, and any of these can make new learning more difficult than it needs to be. The correct medication(s) can help with these while you figure out how to handle depression in the long run.

Change almost always requires learning new ways of interpreting and coping with one’s environment. According to Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) depression can involve, amongst other problems, a lack or loss of focus on what life-directions one regards as important and a commitment to pursue those valued directions despite those discomforts which we often regard as uncomfortable symptoms of depression. Though it may not hold true for all depressive symptoms, at least some symptoms result from biology or chemical imbalances, and bipolar disorders appears to have a strong biological component. Does that mean that medications are always required? There is evidence that changing behavior can lead to changes in brain chemistry similar to those linked to taking medications, so in the long run medications are not always required for a lifetime. And even when ongoing medication is necessary, as in the case of bipolar disorder, medication without other support is often a bad choice.

Of course the choice of whether or not to even consider taking medications temporarily is ultimately up to you if you are my client. But well informed consideration may prove more helpful than blind prejudice. For this reason I have written this little essay and invite you, if this is your issue, to weigh out the pros and cons of your decision.

Guest Blog by: Dr. Henry Steinberger, Psychologist, MSSW, PhD, APA-CPP

Dr. Henry Steinberger is a licensed psychologist in private practice, at Henry Steinberger PhD LLC, in Madison Wisconsin. He offers clients choices: secular recovery based on science vs. spiritual; abstinence vs. moderation. Working with Acceptance & Commitment Therapy as well as Mindfulness Training has proven more effective in Dr Steinberger’s practice with clients presenting with trauma, addiction, or co-occurring issues, than other theraputic models.

Visit Dr Steinberger at: http://www.linkedin.com/in/drhenrysteinberger

Contact Information: (608) 247-5199

 

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Relapse Prevention: Negative Self-Talk, the Warning Sign of a Relapse

This week’s guest blog is written by Sean Leadem, MSW, CSAT, CMAT, Leadem Counseling Services, Toms River, NJ

Shawn is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New Jersey and Virginia with a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Radford University. Through his specialized training by Dr. Patrick Carnes, Shawn has received his certification as a Sexual Addiction Therapist and a Multiple Addictions Therapist by the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals. Shawn is a contributing author to the publication An Ounce of Prevention: A Course in Relapse Prevention and Co-Director of the Relapse Prevention Intensive. His lifelong exposure to the “recovery culture” and his personal recovery experience has left him with a deep personal empathy for the social and emotional suffering endured by others and a strong faith in a person’s ability to change.

This article is the first in a series focusing on relapse prevention tools. More relapse prevention tools will be featured in an upcoming publication entitled: Ounce of Prevention: A Relapse Prevention Guide. The publication’s approach to identifying and intervening on personal relapse triggers or self-defeating behaviors will help you develop a plan for preventing relapse and enhancing the quality of your recovery. The publication challenges the traditional notion that relapse is an event, and advocates relapse is a process and clearly highlights the roadside warnings that can caution you about the slippery slope you may be on.

 
Relapse is identified by the phases we experience prior to sliding down the slippery slope into the murky pond with a deep dark bottom. One of the many strategies for intervening on the phases of relapse is learning to identify the first phase in the relapse process : Emotional Discomfort.

 
To introduce this phase called Emotional Discomfort, I begin by referring to an old 12 Step saying. It goes something like this,

“If you want to know what ‘the drug’ will do to you, keep ‘using it’ and you will find out. If you want to know what it is doing for you, you need to stop ‘using it’.”

 

The first part of the saying is self-explanatory; it isreferring to the consequences one will pay because of their unbridled addiction. The second part of the saying makes reference to the fact that one’s “drug of choice” will be used to numb some emotional pain that will resurface when abstinence is secured. It is the wisdom of this saying that helps to show the reason for using mood-altering drugs is to, alter one’s mood.

 

Some form of emotional discomfort is in every recovering addict; however, emotional discomfort appears differently in different people. One of the ways in which emotional discomfort can be identified is in “negative self-talk”. Negative self-talk is negative internal dialogue we use to view the world, explain situations and communicate to ourselves that focuses our attention on what we believe to be wrong with us or wrong with our life. Negative self-talk is a challenge for many of us.

 
Whether you are new to recovery or have struggled with relapse, it is likely that you have experienced “negative self talk” and consider it a challenge or defect of character. If you have indulged in negative self-talk, you undoubtedly understand the power it has to diminish hope, evaporate self-esteem, and threaten your resolve to remain sober. Negative self-talk can be quite seductive. When we begin embracing statements such as “I have nothing to offer in this relationship” or “people will always disappoint you”, the seductive power of this negative dialogue takes over. Where does it come from? Negative self-talk comes from the comfort or the “familiarity” it brings to you and from the illusion of “protection” this talk may offer you (e.g. to protect you from hurt or abandonment). While most will agree negative self-talk lacks logic or reason, we find ourselves self-degrading before others get a chance to do so, as if it is going to be a protective shield! Does negative self-talk insulate us from criticism or rejection? So why, if it makes no sense, if it does not protect us from rejection, or does not feel good, why do we use it?

 
Clinical experience suggests that much of the data for negative self-talk is acquired during our youth when we are the most impressionable and egocentric. Egocentrism, defined as regarding one’s self as being at the center of all things, is a normal part of childhood development. It is normal for a child to view the world and the adults as somehow being related to them. A child is likely to internalize the pain or chaos that is happening around them and would think – “what is wrong with me?” or “what did I do wrong?”

 

If being impressionable and egocentric are parts of a child’s development why do the messages still hold such power in a recovering adult’s life today? When one becomes dependent on mood altering drugs or experiences, they stunt their development and rob themselves of the opportunity to address the original messages they received and resolve these messages as an adult. Additionally, the older the messages are, the more power they tend to have and as a result, they are more difficult to change. Therefore, it is important to act quickly when the negative self-talk begins or risk succumbing to the seduction it has to offer.

 

This tool, What’s Your Proof?, is designed to address the seductive elements of negative self-talk. This tool will help you recognize that the people who might have contributed to your library of negative self-talk, were hurt people and that you were a victim of their pain, you suffered from collateral damage from their dysfunction – you were not the cause of it.This tool is broken down into five sections.

1. In the first section, you are asked to identify one negative self-talk phrase or perception that is currently causing you injury.
2. Second, identify the “author” (e.g. caretaker, sibling, neighbor) you learned this perception from and/or who in your life would likely have agreed with the perception (e.g. caretaker, siblings, co-workers).
3. In the third section, you are asked to come up with the proof to support the “author’s” perception.
4. In the fourth and final section, you are asked to examine the author’s story and look into their lives and discover what would have hurt them so badly as to cause them to project onto you, this negative attribute.
5. Lastly, ask, “What’s your proof that ___________?

If you are having difficulty completing this exercise or find that is bringing up great emotional pain, please seek out professional help and allow them to guide you through it. Once you have completed this exercise we encourage you to bring it to your support group, including your sponsor for feedback and encouragement.

Written by:
Sean Leadem, MSW, CSAT, CMAT
Leadem Counseling & Consulting Services, PC
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Great Life in Recovery Free Teleseminar May 16, 2012 at 3 pm ET, Noon PT “How to Sterilize a Room”

In May, join moderator Justin Phillips and her guest Melissa Killeen, in a discussion on “How to Sterilize a Room”.

 

As a recovery coach, Melissa Killeen is often called to clean or ‘sterilize’ a client’s residence, from addictive substances. To ‘sterilize’ a room means to search it thoroughly, find any drugs, alcohol, or other contraband, record it, and destroy it. This process is drawn from procedures used by law enforcement for searching crimes scenes.

 

Melissa will guide the listener from the  point of entry, through the methodical steps of searching a room, apartment or residence to discover contraband. What do you do with what you find? She will explain the legal requirements surrounding the destruction of the recovered contents.

 

Who:  Melissa Killeen

What:  How to Sterilize a Room

Date:  Wednesday – May 16, 2012

Time:  3pm Eastern, Noon Pacific

Phone:  1-760- 569-7676  Access Code: 135766#

Back up Phone Line:  1-712-775-7100 Access Code: 452450#

Melissa Killeen is a recovery coach, since 2006, with training in executive coaching. She owns MK Recovery Coaching and works with executives, entrepreneurs, and small business owners that emerge from treatment and find themselves returning to the same life that  contributed to their addiction, in the first place. Melissa works with clients to rebuild their life in sobriety and to repair the effects the disease has had on their business and family. You can contact her at melissakilleen@mkrecoverycoaching.com. After the presentation, a copy of the presentation will appear on her blog, at  https://www.mkrecoverycoaching.com.

 

Wondering what is Recovery Coaching. Are you interested in networking with other coaches? Do you need a Recovery Coach? The Great Life in Recovery Special Interest Group is the right place to start. We provide platforms like this tele-seminar for coaches to learn more about Recovery Coaching and to network with other coaches. Please join us…all are welcome.

 

Check out Recovery Coaches International at http://www.recoverycoaching.org. We are a growing community of coaches who support recovery from all kinds of addictions.

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